We’re continuing our series on becoming free…
I recognize women who have tried to protect themselves by denying the truth of their past sexual abuse, domestic violence or a spouse’s sexual addiction. Denying the lie they are living and the part they play. It’s excruciatingly painful to face the truth head on. To acknowledge the depth of dysfunction, and the stuck place we can’t seem to get out of. But the cost down the road, if we don’t, is so much greater than our current pain.
I wish I could tell them.
These women see the consequences of their broken lives in themselves and in their children and are in despair, but they are afraid to look at the truth. How they got there and why they stay. They are lost in a hurting, hopeless world. I know.
I was one of them.
I believe the woman in the Bible, the one at the well, was one too. But when Jesus sought her out and spoke truth to her, she glimpsed a glimmer of hope.
‘Sir,’ the woman said, ‘I can see that you are a prophet. Our fathers worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.’” (John 4:19-20)
She believed he was a prophet. Maybe he could untangle the mess that was her life.
Was she ready for that?
I wonder if she was trying to change the subject, or if she was trying to prove how “good” she was by telling him what she knew about religion. Often, when the Lord whispers some truth about our lives that we aren’t sure we want to deal with, we focus on a past or future circumstance – well, it was like this… – or another person’s issues instead. Maybe we bring up someone else as a comparison to alleviate our shame, or to evaluate how good we are based on how bad they are.
And how many times do we respond based on what we think God (or someone else) expects?
Or maybe this woman wished she could have a relationship with God, but because someone told her there was only one way and one place, she felt excluded. Besides, the shame she felt was enough to make her exclude herself from any kind of worship. Don’t we often deny ourselves from connecting with God?
How could he want someone like me?
Jesus declared, ‘Believe me, woman…true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks.’”
The truth is, Jesus is happy to have us come to him any time, place and way, if our hearts are sincerely directed towards him.
The woman said, ‘I know that Messiah (called Christ) is coming. When he comes, he will explain everything to us.’” (verse 25)
This woman clung to what she knew. Someday Jesus was going to come and explain everything. That was her hope. I can imagine her wistfully looking towards the mountain, picturing how Jesus would make everything in her life right again.
Can you imagine her astonishment when Jesus said,
‘I who speak to you am he.’?”
The same shame-filled woman, who had earlier avoided the crowd, now went eagerly to find them. She couldn’t wait to share how simply being in the presence of Jesus had transformed her life.
And God has the same for us.
When we worship, when we take in his words spoken to us through the Bible, when we engage with Jesus, he transforms our life. No matter what it looks like. No matter what we’ve done or what’s been done to us.
3 thoughts on “Is This Your Year of Freedom?”
What if this is the year I face my life? What if this is the year I let Him transform me?
Thank you for this, Ms. L
You are so welcome! I pray this year will be a great one for you!
Amen! I pray the same for you.